Living Ever Longer Lives
What Do You Think?
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Dec 5, 2022
Thank you Tricia for that very informative blog! Like many have said I would also like to be able to determine when to go. Thinking about the state of social care makes me very anxious indeed although I have family and grandchildren one never knows what's coming down the road. I had a discussion with my husband recently about getting our affairs in order as death is the one thing we can be sure of in life. How to go about it though? Who can help? Have we started? No....... Regards, Elizabeth x
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Dec 5, 2022
Thank you, Tricia, for this thought provoking blog on such an important topic. I think with the advent of modern medicine longevity was set as the criteria for success, without considering the quality of life of those living longer or the impact this would have on society and, in particular, the younger generation who will have to support us. I'm a fit and healthy 76 year old who still works part time and enjoys life to the full, but I'm super aware that my abilities now are quite different to how I was even ten years ago. This is nature reminding me that life is not forever and giving me time to enjoy as much of my time as I can before I finally head off on my next journey, wherever that might take me. I do not want to linger on in this world to become a burden to myself, my family or society. I have done my living will, filled in every DNR form going and had long conversations with my children about my end of life wishes. I think this is particularly important, as it not only helps prepare them for the inevitable, but it helps take the pressure off nearest and dearest should they be asked to make a life or death decision on our behalf. I believe this is an urgent conversation that needs to be had by everyone at every level.
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Dec 4, 2022
Tricia: I look forward to your blogs every week. They are always thought-provoking. I've been especially interested of late in your "look to the future" blogs. I read the one about "downsizing" to my husband and it started a really important conversation. Today's says to me, "make the most of every day and be grateful, cherish and nurture your good health while you have it." Thank you, Tricia for your forward thinking.
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Dec 4, 2022
No desire at all to live an extra 100 years! I think such a lot depends on health/mobility/brain power and those are the things that dear mother Nature takes away from many people - although I think genetics plays a large part. This week there's good news for dementia (or was it Alzheimer's) in that something has been discovered at last to delay symptoms. As for people spending billions on 'anti-ageing', it reminds me of all those people who had their bodies cryogenically frozen which didn't seem to be a very positive move! A person I know has recently had her tenth child. She's been ill ever since and her poor little body is totally out of whack poor thing but she'll always have family to care for her! Not that I'm advocating having quite so many children. But I like your comment about the immigration (which always seems to be 90% men) of younger people. As long as they settle in, learn English and have or acquire the skills, they'll really help the pyramid you mention. As ever, an interesting blog with lots to think about. Happy Christmas everyone and very best wishes for an enjoyable and healthy 2023.
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Dec 4, 2022
Dear Tricia. Quite a difficult topic, for me today.! I have a 54 year old son, who researches everything and who is extremely interested in the aging process and the ways in which age will eventually take us way beyond our current levels….which he would love! Yes he is a healthy, educated “high earner” and at this time of life wants to live a longer healthy life. I certainly now, would not want to even consider anything beyond the norm. I am 76 now and despite many serious health issues since my 59th birthday, I still work , two days per week. This along with my state pension and small occupational pension, gives me a good standard of living. Take the work out of the equation and my standard would drop significantly….financially and in many other ways too. ( even though I work mainly on MS Teams from home.) No , I want to try and remain , well, safe and active. Being a nurse myself, I am only too aware, that there will not be the care , there , for me, should I require it……not as I I would have once given ,to my patients ,back in the day! Like many others in our age group, I just have to be thankful for my life as it is and thankful for what I have especially my home and reasonable “health”. My two children , 3 grandchildren and two pets! All in all , I consider myself extremely lucky and shall try to preserve what I have, for as long as I can! Best wishes to you and hope your alterations are going well.